Joined: Mar 2011 Strangelove gives some pretty good tips, some of which I’ve been running for some time myself.

Joined: Mar 2011 Strangelove gives some pretty good tips, some of which I've been running for some time myself.

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I am fortunate enough to be 6’Two, and I noticed that there are always a lot of taller ladies on the site (Five’Ten and above) that get messaged far less than the shorter ones. So hit them up, especially if you’re a taller man (a lot of these women are on the site to find a dude taller than them), the response rate is way better.

I’m Russian, so I find that messaging Russian or other Eastern European chicks is particularly more “high percentage”, especially if you don’t embody the stereotype of your nationality. On okCupid you can search by language, so you can also find a lot of adorable, non-princessy women using that method alone. Messaging ladies that speak another language fluently increases my success rate. Similarly – I get a lot more looks and messages from ladies that speak the same languages as me. So, if you speak another language – even hardly – add it to your profile.

While sending cool unique messages is certainly the best way to go, there are very few profiles that inspire me to write anything witty, some women are abate, and some are just copies of women you talked to before. However, if you’re on these sites enough, you notice that a lot of damsels have shit in common. Here are the Trio that I encounter the most:

— they love to travel

— they love every kind of music but country

— they are not originally from Fresh York (where i live).

I see this in profiles so often that I just reuse old messages I’ve had on the topic. They are good, cautiously thought out messages and they look like i put a decent amount of time to put this message together, and that I’m totally not a copy/paster (lol).

Here is an example message, this is what I use if the female is all about travel:

“It’s truly cool that you’re a travel nut, I especially like the ((insert whatever she exploded about in her profile here)), but what’s been your most amazing, most extreme, most unique travel memory?

Mine will hopefully happen later this year, right now I’m planning a journey to el alberto, a puny town in mexico that was ravaged by immigration so they determined to do something about it – they opened a theme park. And what’s the theme? Illegal border crossing simulations. That’s right, for about Ten dollars, you get to train. I mean ‘simulate’ what it’s like to cross the US/Mexico border, finish with rails on shady pickup trucks, crawling in the dark and people with flash lights pursuing you. How nuts is that?

Anyway, you seem pretty cool, talk to you soon!

Just tested this yesterday, and this gets a lot of traffic to your page. Whenever you upload a fresh picture, switch anything in your profile, or reaction a match question publicly and with explanation, you pop up on people’s “Latest activity” feed. so be sure to do this a few times a day (it takes 20 seconds), and your profile will get a lot more views.

I have not tested this, but it seems like a fully viable strategy in smaller towns and cities (I read about this on Reddit). Make a bunch of Very attractive female profiles (model or near model looks, a swimsuit or at least belly exposing picture that shows the world that they’re not fat, lots on nerdy interests like starlet trek and starlet wars, etc – the super hot ultimate female next door nerd), consistently log into them and clear their inboxes (they will pack, Prompt). Now, all the other guys in that area will starlet messaging these 10-20 ideal ladies, leaving all the rest for you. The ladies who used to be bombed with masculine attention will quickly see it sharply decrease, and will be WAAAAY more likely to react to your messages.

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Let me explain: on Wednesday night my friends and I dangled out at this indeed cool local bar – the ratio was about even, but noone was hitting on the chicks. Why? They were all 6-es at best.

If I go out to a more swanky bar or club I have to worry about bouncers, dress codes, ratios, competition, etc. It’s just getting to a point that nightlife isnt truly that much joy. And the places that aren’t like i described? You can bet your sweet booty that other guys already know about them and the place is a total sausage fest.

If you look at NYC’s rooftop bar scene, two of the more popular places that aren’t butt-holes about the door and have free entry – Gansevoort Hotel and 230 5th – are basically inexperienced PUA hour. Yes, I have actually heard “who lies more, boys or women” at these places.

And even if you’re in a good mood and embark talking to a dame, what is truly happening? You see her, and for the beginning she is a hot chunk of bum, you have no idea what she’s like as a person, and you might concentrate a lot of time and attention on a lady who personality wise is not worth your time. Online, you can actually get a good idea of someone’s personality before you meet them.

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Thats my point. I am shocked you are telling that your total investment is 20 minutes. Are you sure about that? It seems more like Five hours a day on what you described to sit there and go through profiles of ladies that can even make the cut! Then to have to do everything daily you mentioned above.

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That idea came from the Four hour workweek.

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Damn! Even in NYC? What you’re describing is a typical nite in DC. I thought NYC had good nightlife.

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At times it does, but you indeed gotta hustle sometimes to find it. Gotta know a fellow that knows a boy that knows a dude.

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I’ve been wondering about that. I just joined LatinAmericanCupid a few days ago and have been getting a lot of attention directed my way from some very attractive latinas, but they’re all located in East Bumfuck, Ecuador and whatnot whereas I’m clearly in Argentina. Do you think these chicks are up for a fling/DTF or are they solely cadging for the foreign passport? Is it even worth replying to any of them? In any case, its been a nice stroke for my ego .

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Ever attempted using those Alts to rate up your own profile? I’ve done this with several alts myself but never that many. Also if what you’re telling is in their profile is true (local, into a lot of shit dudes like, etc) I’d say that they’d show up on your own quickmatch pretty often and vice versa. Might be an effortless way to get that “hidden” hotness rating from the quickmathes up a notch so that more attractive ladies will see you more often as well.

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– If you’re looking for someone who’s not a commodity (for example, looking for white chick in US who has no anglo-saxon ancestry),

– If you’re looking to meet a female born in a specific country (for a flag, search by language),

– If you’re looking for some kinky stuff most people won’t be up to (like animal roleplay).

Joined: Mar 2011

Strangelove gives some pretty good tips, some of which I’ve been running for some time myself. I don’t do all of the updating or mass emails, so I think I most likely spend a lot less time with pretty decent results.

*Outdoor Activities (mention my marathon running, kayaking, skydiving interests, or some random event going on in the next few months — i.e. Obstacle Course Races, 10k, Hiking Trips, Boot Camp — piquing her interest with extremes)

*Cooking (convey my superior skill, poke joy at something they mentioned, etc.)

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